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HELP! ADVICE NEEDED ASAP!!

November 16th, 2006 at 03:27 pm

So, as you all know, I got the new job I wanted: editing and proofreading for a publishing company.

Here's the dilema....my current boss offered me a promotion and a good size raise to stay!!!

If I take the new job, I take a pay cut, and make about $27,000 a year. If I stay here, I get a raise to about $34,000 a year!!

But my current boss drives me crazy and I have always wanted a job in publishing. But right now $ is such an incentive with my debt...

I'm looking to my fellow bloggers and friends to help me figure this out...

ADVICE??????

12 Responses to “HELP! ADVICE NEEDED ASAP!!”

  1. Thrifty Ray Says:
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    Loving your job is so important. What is the potential for increases at the new job???

  2. bcchiang Says:
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    That's a tough choice right there, but at least you're in a position to perhaps go to the highest bidder? Maybe tell the "new employer" of the "old employers" offer and see if they could possibly match it? If it were me, i'd most likely go with the more money offer. Good luck!

    I'm a really indecisive person, so i hate being faced with Decisions For The Indecisive.

  3. tinapbeana Says:
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    one thing to consider: if you stay at your current job after being offered more money, what will be the company's view on you from that point forward? will you be viewed as a loyal employee doing the best work possible, or an employee who's simply staying because of a monetary offer who may or may not be putting their all into the job?

    i ask this because should it come to letting someone go in the future, it might be more likely someone will be let go that has already thought of leaving the company.

    and i agree: your satisfaction with your job has to come into consideration. what good is making more money if you're so stressed by your job you wind up spending some of it? plus the growth potential for both locations over, say, the next 5 years.

  4. kashi Says:
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    I'd take the new job. If you've always wanted a job in publishing (like me!), and you think you'll be happy there, go for it. If you rock, they might give you a raise there sooner than you think...or maybe it will lead to an even better job. Six months from now, will you regret not taking this opportunity?

  5. janH Says:
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    Same thing happened to Hubby. The old company has offered to try to give him more to stay. (There are some management problems with the old company, too) He is aware that things won't be perfect at the new job, but it is something he wants to do. I think that job satisfaction and pursuing a dream you have would be a consideration. But I'm not in your shoes...good luck on your decision!

  6. Thrifty Ray Says:
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    Just to add more food for thought...There is good and bad at just about every job. You know what you like and dislike at your current job.

    Are the benefits equal at the two jobs?
    Do you know why the position is open at the new job?
    (Will you be working for Cruella DeVille??)
    Are you vested in a retirement plan??

    Obviously there is much to consider. Id sit down and make a list of pros and cons of each before making a decision.

    And then there's the old addage..."Do what you love and the money will follow"

    Good luck with, what sounds like, a very tough decision.

  7. koppur Says:
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    Thanks for helping me all!

    The potential for a raise is good at the new company. They already raised their starting offer once to get me tehre, and I was told in 6 months I will get a performance erview with a possible promotion/raise. The thing w/the promotion/raise at my current job is that I was told I'd be getting this in April anyways, so it's kinda of like they are just giving it to me early to get me to stay. And I will have no new responsibilities, just the actual title and salary of the work I already do everyday. Benefits are close to the same, vacation time is a little less at the enw job, but then again, I won;t need as many personal mental health days if I am no longer with my current boss.

    With the new job, the company is in a major episode of expansion, so that is where the job poenings are coming from. I actually interviewed at this place about a year ago adn never got offered a job, so this is a big deal for me.

    The advice about doing what you love and the money following are so very true...if only the money could follow quicker! LOL

  8. monkeymama Says:
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    I know a lot of people who made this choice and were miserable - I Would not recommend staying. In general it never pans out, who wants to work somewhere where they only reward you if you try to leave. I can think of quite a few people who made this choice and regretted it. Their boss offered such and such and all the time in the end their boss renigged on certain items, or everything they hated about their job didn't change so they just became more and more miserable - money was not the answer. Worse they didn't get any raises down the road because they got so much "now."

    Plus I totally agree with the whole liking what you do is important. But thought I would point out another angle as well.

  9. Broken Arrow Says:
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    I can only tell you what I myself would have done if I was in your situation. However, this may be necessarily reflect what you should do, because I'm sure we are two different people....

    However, I would take the new job. Sure, the new job may or may not pan out, but we are certain of a couple of things:

    1. You've always wanted to do something that's being offered now in your new job.

    2. Your current boss bothers you.

    Given these known quantities, I would have taken my chances with the new job. After all, after a certain point, a job is more than just the money. You have to be happy with what you're doing too. In fact, I would go so far as to say that that is even more important than the money.

    But again, that's just me. Smile

  10. Sunshine Suz Says:
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    My two cents...

    Go with the new job...with your dream. Think how many hours of your life you spend at work...spend it doing something you like and not something that makes you miserable.

    Follow your gut. Sleep on it. You'll make the right decision.

    Good luck.

  11. pjmama Says:
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    Dont do anything you may regret later... it'll take it's toll tenfold on ya, stick with what you love Smile And remember: (gasp, I'm saying this on savingadvice!) Money is just money. Good luck in whatever you do!

  12. paigu Says:
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    Do you like your current job? Do you *love* it as you seem to love the editing/publishing position? Go with what you will love doing, the job where you wish to grow and develop a career from.
    Take it from me....I had started a job in pharmaceutical marketing/consulting that paid very well, but I hated it. My "dream job" as a medical writer opened up quite suddenly and I leaped at the chance, even though it meant taking a significant pay cut (and the ire of my crazy ex-boss, but that's her problem for being such a horrid tyrant). It was the BEST move I've ever made, and even more rewarding, I made the leap from science into writing even after all professors and PIs warned me I wouldn't be able to do it.

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